Wednesday, July 27, 2005

This topic could spark some debate.

this post I think could be one of the few things that would cause more contreversy then my war post. Aman gave me the idea and this post has spent some time in the making. Its not much of a post on anything and it might bring back bad memories of a couple Health Classes but this is something all teens should think about more then once. You never know when you will have to deal with a situation involving it and in my own opinion its best to prepare prematurely instead of too little too late.

I of course am addressing the issue of teenage sex/pregnancies. I don't really have any statistics dealing with this topic exactly, but I'm pretty sure if I did the numbers would not be pretty. I do recall a survey saying that 80% of teens graduating high schools have reportedly had sex sometime throughout their life. I also know the numbers in our own class right now are probably much higher then most of us would think. So with this said I just want to know peoples thoughts on this. No names need be mentioned just know that Im stating my own opinion first here. Thanks for understanding.

To me sex is simply wrong anytime before marriage. condoms or no condoms, protection or no protection, sex is something reserved for a man and a woman who are bound to each other by the guideline set out in marriage and thus is an example of the supreme love felt for each other. I think sex is a physical/emotional/ physcological property of love that people look at too lightly and regard mostly in the physical sense. Abstaining until marriage is the only right path in my own opinion but I don't hold people who have not waited in bad light, they just made a bad choice and we all do that. My opinion shall remain though that sex is a process for a man and a woman bound by marriage to express their love to each other in a deeply passionate and personal way.

59 Comments:

Blogger UncleFluffy said...

i concur with the comment about not wanting to get pregnant at this age aman.

7/27/2005 09:36:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, if I stated my opinion it would look acactly like aman's. Maturity and responsibility are necessary. I also do not hold anything against those who try earlier in life... I think it's a dangerous idea though.

7/28/2005 08:05:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ahh yes its true sarah the fact of the matter is i can't plan for a situation where the thought will occur spur of the moment. But while I can't so much plan for that situation I can prepare myself mentally to say no to the female in those situations. Respect for ones self and others is they key i feel.

7/28/2005 04:21:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

there is no point throwing away your life for something so pointless as sex. think about it, the risks along with the pain involved is just a waste. Waiting will make it 10 times more enjoyable anyway because then you will have the added satisfaction of knowing you waited for it, and that will feel better then sex ever could.

7/29/2005 11:13:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im all with fluffy- i love you, lol. i think it would be like 10 times more better if you waited, and even though it can be hard sometimes, some on, we have agencey and we can say yes or no. its not all that hard people say it is.

7/29/2005 04:30:00 PM  
Blogger I-lean said...

Very well said, Jeffrey!

Your definition of what sex SHOULD be is very good and I agree very much. I think sex in high school is dumb and stupid. Most people who lose their virginity in high school (and even in college) say that they really regret it later. Sex in college isn't even good. No matter what a lot of people think, they really just aren't that mature, and that's what it really is about. You have to be really ready, your partner does, and you have to talk about it first. Communication is a big thing. I think it would just in general be more fun to wait until your married. If you go the whole nine yards before your even married, what's left? Not saying that's a reason to get married, but just think about it...it takes away the specialness.

8/01/2005 03:04:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think a simple way to sum up the subject is: If you think you are mature enough to have sex then you are not mature enough. But if you know you are not mature enough for the moment then you are far more mature then someone who thinks they are ready for sex.

8/01/2005 04:25:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok Jeffrey, as we all know you believe in God. But, if god gave you a penis at this time in your life, why should you not be allowed to use it? I do not think it is wrong to have sex before marriage and I see no point in waiting (from a guy's perspective) if you do not want to. Plus I don't know whether it would "better" to have it later in life since I only live one time. And then I rot in the ground for enternity.
-Kris

8/02/2005 04:27:00 PM  
Blogger I-lean said...

Exactly Jeffrey!

Yeah, I think guys have penises at this time in their lives, and their whole lives so they can carry out other bodily functions, such as, oh, I don't know....maybe peeing?

8/03/2005 08:24:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Haha...yes...because we all know the penis is ONLY used for sex. Nothing else. yes...

8/03/2005 09:42:00 AM  
Blogger UncleFluffy said...

Kris I don't know about your penis but I do pee with mine :)

8/03/2005 10:18:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kris I just want to point out that now two females have disagreed with what you have said and on that matter almost every single one who has commented in this post has disagreed with it... So in that sense your idea doesn't seem to be too fond with the females.. maybe that tells you something about it.

8/03/2005 10:20:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

and i disagree with kris too, so that makes 3.

8/03/2005 10:49:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Me fourth! :-D

8/03/2005 11:17:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nobody said it was only used for peeing... but it becomes erect at this point in your life and it can be used for sex so why shouldn't it be used for sex? If god did not want you to use it for sex, why would god make it useable for sex now? That peeing point was quite retarded.
-Kris

8/03/2005 11:29:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kris I just want to point out that now two females have disagreed with what you have said and on that matter almost every single one who has commented in this post has disagreed with it... So in that sense your idea doesn't seem to be too fond with the females.. maybe that tells you something about it.


Do I care what females think I should do or not do with my penis? That is like telling a female what they can and can not do with the fetus inside their body (now I know abortion is a whole other can of worms...). It is not their decision to make.
-Kris

8/03/2005 11:32:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok, sex is an extremely large step in peoples lives, however i think that if you believe you are ready, as well as your partner, you should show your love for each other in whatever means you agree upon. Who is to say that you should not if you and your partner love each other and take sex seriously? It would be totally illogical to say that sex before marriage is COMPLETELY wrong. If you treat sex as an everyday thing and don't respect your sexual partner, then you are just a complete asshole, and thus you should not be having sex. However, if you truly love each other, take proper steps to protect each other, and are ready to cope with the emotional bond that goes with sex, what reason is there not to have sex before marriage? Go ahead and believe what you want, but it is quite hypocritical to tell others how to live their lives(and i'm not accusing anybody with this statement). I don't think that sex before marriage is wrong unless you treat it the wrong way.

-Matt Solverson

8/03/2005 03:20:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey i asked for opinions and thats what i got. there is no right or wrong answer here, but lets try to avoid finger pointing everybody. (that goes as much to me as to anybody else.)

8/03/2005 03:55:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if i came across "pointing fingers" i didn't mean to, sorry if i did.

-Matt S

8/03/2005 04:46:00 PM  
Blogger Kyle Higgins said...

damn chrisitian religion now I'm like a sinner cause i think about sex lol. pregnany is bad for teenagers but sex is fine as long as it's agreed

8/03/2005 05:14:00 PM  
Blogger Kyle Higgins said...

new post for me


lets all just go fuck everyone! :-D

8/03/2005 05:15:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kyle that was a very inappropriate comment u should b ashamed of yourself

8/03/2005 05:21:00 PM  
Blogger Kyle Higgins said...

well u know wat anonymous that's your own opinion.

8/03/2005 05:22:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

yes. yes it is dumb ass

8/03/2005 05:22:00 PM  
Blogger Kyle Higgins said...

hey don't call me a dumb ass u dumb ass

8/03/2005 05:22:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jeffrey I agree with waiting until marriage, thats really all I'm going to say, and yes this is mostly based on my religion.

8/03/2005 05:24:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Abstaining until marriage is the only right path in my own opinion but I don't hold people who have not waited in bad light, they just made a bad choice and we all do that.

I am quoting Jeffrey on this one. He is saying that it is the "bad" choice to make if you choose to have sex before marriage. I think the only person who can say what is good or bad is the person making the choice which is determined by his/her conscience. There is no good or bad decision to make here, but it can probably be said that you made the "bad" desiscion if the girl is pregnant and you are going to be financially insecure for the rest of your life.
-Kris

8/03/2005 05:53:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow sex is for fun. Why deny yourselves the pleasure you bible slappers. If it can get hard, why not use it. Just use it responsibly and thats all. Sex isnt a real big part of life. I know tons of people that dont even remember losing their virginity. Sex is sex. Its everywhere. STOP BEING PUSSIES AND GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS. And to the Girls, you are 13, you probably havent even had your first period. Prude ass wanna-be sluts.

8/03/2005 06:54:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

lmao^^. So true.

8/03/2005 07:03:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sex is good, YEAYA! Its human nature accept it and be done. This goes as well for the evolution theory.

8/03/2005 07:06:00 PM  
Blogger UncleFluffy said...

STOP BEING PUSSIES AND GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS

yo anonymous i respect your opinion but watch your mouth. Im sorry but my virgin body includes my virgin ears.

8/03/2005 09:02:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

With a name like uncle fluffy, youll live a virgin forever.

8/03/2005 09:26:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sex.
Sex
Sex.
Sex.
Sex.

Is good, it doesnt make you go to hell if you do it before marriage ( a lot of people i talk to believe so) and if thats True.

then 0 % of people will be going ot hell, Hwo the hell (lol) are you going to wait for marraige,Jesus. (<-- lol )

Ahout out to Kris. Word.

-seacrest out


by the way www.gamebattles.com

8/03/2005 09:29:00 PM  
Blogger UncleFluffy said...

u better believe it anonymous... i will remain a virgin forever and live in a carboard box on a sheltered street corner with nobody by my side. But hey at least I don't hide who I am and how i feel.

8/03/2005 09:43:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think having a baby is bad because who wants this 1 foot twerp dictating your life for 18 years.

Not me,
kthnxbye

8/03/2005 11:08:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Laffo.

The only reason you want to not have sex is because you can't get any fat-boy. And the girls in there that agree probably have a box of sara lees sitting with them.

8/04/2005 12:33:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

MUH BALLS

8/04/2005 12:36:00 AM  
Blogger Kyle Higgins said...

geeze apparently i started sumthin in here by making the sex is good comment and all that crap. sorry jeffrey didn't mean to do that lol

8/04/2005 07:04:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

who the hell just called me fat?? you want to bring it Jayk?? I will run circles around you for days. Don't insult females in my presence... you are a low coward to do such a thing.

8/04/2005 09:31:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

so if I insult u jeffrey does that make me a coward sence I would b making fun of females in your presence?

8/04/2005 09:36:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

HAHA you got burned bitch!!! Go circle JErk it JEff

8/04/2005 10:17:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

:)

8/04/2005 10:22:00 AM  
Blogger Kyle Higgins said...

this is getting out of hand lol the one about calling jeffrey a chick was from me. I'm done now

8/04/2005 10:34:00 AM  
Blogger UncleFluffy said...

i have no need for money.

8/04/2005 12:31:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i am so confussed

8/04/2005 12:32:00 PM  
Blogger Kyle Higgins said...

u ppl disgust me!

8/04/2005 04:21:00 PM  
Blogger I-lean said...

I respect everyone's opinions, and I don't necassarily think sex before marriage is wrong, it's just not a choice I'm sure I'd go with. Other than that, it's nice people have opinions, it's just not necassary to express them is such grotesque ways. Geeze.

8/04/2005 04:56:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

shut up bitch, dont make me smack yo ass boy

8/04/2005 05:46:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Haha...yes...because we all know the penis is ONLY used for sex. Nothing else. yes...

And we all know an erect penis is used for something else... yes...

8/04/2005 06:03:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Every guy who said that sex is "wrong" before marriage, how many times you jack off a week....? REligion, HA

8/05/2005 09:39:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thats disgusting.

8/05/2005 10:09:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"Wow sex is for fun. Why deny yourselves the pleasure you bible slappers. If it can get hard, why not use it. Just use it responsibly and thats all. Sex isnt a real big part of life. I know tons of people that dont even remember losing their virginity. Sex is sex. Its everywhere. STOP BEING PUSSIES AND GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS. And to the Girls, you are 13, you probably havent even had your first period. Prude ass wanna-be sluts."

Whoever wrote this is obviously to afraid to put their name, but all that put aside you can have your opinions about sex but why would you say that we dont have balls for following a religion that we believe in with every fiber of our being? If your aethiest, well then im very sorry, but i suppose you have the right to be. Well anyways this is probably going to turn into a religious debate now. So anonymous maybe you could leave your name, or some kind of hint.

8/05/2005 05:32:00 PM  
Blogger Kyle Higgins said...

i agree with andy

8/06/2005 04:42:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Whoever wrote this is obviously to afraid to put their name, but all that put aside you can have your opinions about sex but why would you say that we dont have balls for following a religion that we believe in with every fiber of our being? If your aethiest, well then im very sorry, but i suppose you have the right to be. Well anyways this is probably going to turn into a religious debate now. So anonymous maybe you could leave your name, or some kind of hint.



I believe he is just some random kid from the net, nobody we know.
-Kris

8/06/2005 05:22:00 PM  
Blogger UncleFluffy said...

i am thinking that Kris is possibly right... but I do have 195 people on my buddy list and about 75 of them i don't know so its possible that they could be on my buddy list and I not know them.

8/06/2005 10:17:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

who is nnick? anyway i would have to agree with my brother and jeffrey

8/11/2005 12:54:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sex outside of marriage only leads to hurt. I think a lot of you posting comments are immature and I say this just from reading what you have written here. Sex and immaturity don't go together so 99% of you aren't ready for it. Oh and you who stated that all the girls here are 13 year olds and don't knoww what they're talking about...I happen to be a 19 year old college student who happens to is know a thing or two about both the female anatomy and male anatomy. The reason you were born with a penis is because it is the way God created the male anatomy. Why argue with that? I think immature point to try and argue. All in all sex is a choice. And sex before marriage..all i can say is everyone's entitled to a bad choice. Waiting till marriage is the logical and eithical decision because there's something more there than lust and physical attraction.

8/17/2005 10:31:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am not going to argue Lindsay's ridiculous points because this topic has gone on long enough. But to say it is a bad choice to have sex before marriage is immature (and yes I know you are 19 so don't forcefeed me your BS).
-Kris

8/18/2005 11:16:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey lindsay it's also wonderful to know that you're only 18 and nobody seems to feel the need to comment on your bullshit in your blog.

8/18/2005 11:24:00 AM  

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