How low can you go??
I would like to start this off simply by saying thank you to anyone who answered my last post, while nobody really liked what I had to say (which is perfectly all right I am a bit extreme on that subject), I really do appreciate when all of you leave comments. It brightens my day whenever I see a new comment, no matter how different it may be. So really thank you for that.
And now, for the grand moment of another raving fest. Enjoy :>
Lately I have been doing some thinking about people I have met in this world. Like flat out thinking about people's personalities. I won't mention any names in this post, nor will I try to point anybody nor their actions out. If I do, please understand it is coincidental and not meant in the least to be an insult nor a direct burn in your/their direction. I am only saying what I think and this being my blog that is my right. If you still take offense by something, either write a response or bring it up to me in person. I will be glad to talk about it/explain were I am coming from.
There is this trait in high school which I ultimately have come to despise. It's when people act fake. As in, they don't act like themselves. It really upsets me because everyone was created with a purpose, WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU WANT TO BE SOMEONE OR SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE NOT?? I don't understand it, like when some people pretend that they like you, or that they are your friend, yet the minute you are out of earshot, they turn on you. Without regard to the fact that you are human and deserve respect, they will say whatever trash they really wish to about you. Or when (and this is a sad generalization but please understand I can only see this from my own personal experiences) girls lead a guy on all because they feel they can control their emotions. Why?? What makes you think that doesn't hurt?? I know that the sad part about this is that any girl who will read this isn't one who needs to see it. Still, not all guys are out only for the physical aspects of a relationship. Not every guy is just trying to "Get into your pants". Some of us, we want someone we can trust, we can talk to, laugh with, have fun with, trust, and be close to. I personally feel that trying to get a girl friend is extremely difficult because I always have to ask myself just how much I can trust a girl. I know that some people don't mean to, that some are just flirtatious in nature, but people have no right to toy with someone elses emotions just because it makes them feel better about themselves. Yes I'm sure it is nice to have complete control over people sometimes, and feel like you are a superior being, but in the end all it does is show how insecure you really truly are. I realize that I have gotten a bit off of my original topic but that really doesn't matter to me because in the end I have gotten to a topic I have always wanted to discuss anyways. I'm sure its not just girls who do this, I mean I know that guys have a bad tendency to use girls for just pure sex, and I completely despise this and frown upon it as well. I'm sorry that many girls have to go through that, but I can't answer for that. I can only ask that girls forgive us guys for sometimes we don't think and it hurts people. I am truly deeply sorry that anybody would have to suffer through that.
Looking back through this all, I would not hesitate to say that the answer to my question seems to have no limits. People truly have no limit to just how low they will go in order to make themselves feel better. How pitifully lame it is that they have to do that at others expense.
And now, for the grand moment of another raving fest. Enjoy :>
Lately I have been doing some thinking about people I have met in this world. Like flat out thinking about people's personalities. I won't mention any names in this post, nor will I try to point anybody nor their actions out. If I do, please understand it is coincidental and not meant in the least to be an insult nor a direct burn in your/their direction. I am only saying what I think and this being my blog that is my right. If you still take offense by something, either write a response or bring it up to me in person. I will be glad to talk about it/explain were I am coming from.
There is this trait in high school which I ultimately have come to despise. It's when people act fake. As in, they don't act like themselves. It really upsets me because everyone was created with a purpose, WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU WANT TO BE SOMEONE OR SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE NOT?? I don't understand it, like when some people pretend that they like you, or that they are your friend, yet the minute you are out of earshot, they turn on you. Without regard to the fact that you are human and deserve respect, they will say whatever trash they really wish to about you. Or when (and this is a sad generalization but please understand I can only see this from my own personal experiences) girls lead a guy on all because they feel they can control their emotions. Why?? What makes you think that doesn't hurt?? I know that the sad part about this is that any girl who will read this isn't one who needs to see it. Still, not all guys are out only for the physical aspects of a relationship. Not every guy is just trying to "Get into your pants". Some of us, we want someone we can trust, we can talk to, laugh with, have fun with, trust, and be close to. I personally feel that trying to get a girl friend is extremely difficult because I always have to ask myself just how much I can trust a girl. I know that some people don't mean to, that some are just flirtatious in nature, but people have no right to toy with someone elses emotions just because it makes them feel better about themselves. Yes I'm sure it is nice to have complete control over people sometimes, and feel like you are a superior being, but in the end all it does is show how insecure you really truly are. I realize that I have gotten a bit off of my original topic but that really doesn't matter to me because in the end I have gotten to a topic I have always wanted to discuss anyways. I'm sure its not just girls who do this, I mean I know that guys have a bad tendency to use girls for just pure sex, and I completely despise this and frown upon it as well. I'm sorry that many girls have to go through that, but I can't answer for that. I can only ask that girls forgive us guys for sometimes we don't think and it hurts people. I am truly deeply sorry that anybody would have to suffer through that.
Looking back through this all, I would not hesitate to say that the answer to my question seems to have no limits. People truly have no limit to just how low they will go in order to make themselves feel better. How pitifully lame it is that they have to do that at others expense.
posted by UncleFluffy at 6/02/2006 02:03:00 PM
14 Comments:
So, umm, i don't get it. You're mad at girls for being flirtatious?- pimp
But I do see where your coming from. It's happened to me, and it can be confussing, but usually just by the type of girl it is, I can tell if they're just being a tease or not. I know someone who admits to being an enormous tease, but they can't help it, and that's just their personality.
yea i told you it would be confusing when you read it, what im trying to get at is that some girls don't be flirtatious because they like a guy, they do it because it makes them feel better. some guys do the exact same the other way, I know some who do that. Both ways. It's really just a tragedy.
doesn't technically everything always turn out for the best, so that good or bad comment is partially neglible. I honestly think that things over time always turn out for the best, otherwise things would have no purpose for happening in some sequential order.. yea that was really quite a dumb response.
Yeah I see it as immature. The problem is just about everyone in high school is immature and thus it's tough to find an actual relationship. Thus why I am waiting til college.
Wow, Jeff, you post something, and you get seven comments on it in less than 5 hours. I haven't gotten a comment in years!. I guess your just popular- wiat, make that 8 comments for you now.
I know exactly what you mean about the "fakeness". It never ceases to amaze me how much people hide their true selves. I don't know if it's because they're secretly insecure or hate themselves or just want to be loved, but it's really sad, because they'll grow up someday and won't know who they really are.
And about the girls leading guys on - I've known so many girls who love themselves based on how much attention gets paid to them. So guys to them just become pawns in their quest to make themselves have true worth. It's sad because then everyone gets hurt.
The problem though is that none of the right people will read this. Jeffrey was right in saying that, which is unfortunate. It's just all one big jumble of raging hormones, immaturity, and uncontrolled emotions.
But talking about it really doesn't help does it? It's great to discuss it but just discussing it doesn't do anything. You have to set the good example that these less confident (or whatever else) people can follow. I think that all of us can say we have toyed with someone elses emotions at least once. I'm not trying to be irrational but I think whether it was to a friend or a bf/gf, we've done it.
Even at the dance there was so much drama if you just looked around, and a lot of it was mis-communications. People don't know what they want so they decide on wanting everything and no one can be everything to one person at this age (that would be marriage material).
It's just those darn raging irrational hormones (if you really want to blame it on something).
Jeff toyed with a hot tub full of emotions. . .
My name is Jeffrey.
Your name is Jeff- it's too hard to spell Jeffrey everytime. It takes too long.
Keels said it best of all of us. Really...notice how everyone who comments is agreeing with Jeffrey? You were right that the people who need to see this post won't ever see it.
My name is Jeffrey.
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